I had decided to lighten the f@#$ up on my interactions with WWW….with some interesting results and observations.
Most of our misunderstood situations that make each of us prickly towards each other seem to start at the end of some of our extremely long dates. The longer our dates became, the more comfortable we each started to feel. With that comfort, we divulged a bit deeper and more intimate revelations about ourselves…. And that is the precise moment we start to misinterpret each other’s words. We are now trying to take a deep breath, and ask more specific questions before freaking out. It seems to have worked, and we are realizing we are WAY more similar than first glance. And most of the things I’ve freaked out about were complete misunderstandings and we actually agree on the issue.
Those amazing characteristics in WWW that I was originally drawn to are shining a bit brighter.
All I’m saying is this has some potential and I should experience this.
We have even talked about making appointments at Planned Parenthood for the full STD testing…. yeah crazy, right?
I’m really glad I’ve lightened up and started listening and communicating better with her. I’m sure we will still have some misunderstandings, but we have established some firm ground on how to talk about it.
The house is looking great, and getting closer to the finish line. There are kitchen cabinets going in upstairs and downstairs. The paint (No VOC) is on the walls. There is still concrete to pour outside, but the framing is done. I’m still broke, and the bank had to call last Friday to let me know there were insufficient funds to cover some of substantial checks there were being cashed. I transferred more out of my retirement saving to cover, but even that account is almost empty. You only live once, right?
Basement Kitchen cabinets going in.